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14 février 依赖是一种病态, over依赖的二十二岁男人是个懦弱的表现~！“依赖”，
这俩个字让我回想起以前的我，可能我是家中唯一的孩子，
所以培养出“依赖”，这种坏习惯。
什么事情都要妈妈来帮，当我离开家乡去西马过后，
我才慢慢的学习独立起来， 但是每次回家乡我都懒惰自己煮面吃，
每一次都要老母“达林”帮我煮，因为在家的时候，我会不知觉的依赖起来，
可能这是我撒娇的方法，当我自己一个人的时候， 我却不会这样子。（我对丸丸也是这样撒娇
 ）今时今日，在英国，在我现在住的家，我看到一个已经二十二岁的男人，患了严重的“Over依赖”symptoms
 .他让我见识到依赖是如此让人“肚林”的坏习惯，比如：
不敢在夜晚独自去厨房，
不敢跟老外沟通，要我们去跟老外沟通(虽然英文不好，不敢沟通，但我们的英文也没好到哪里去
 ），不敢夜晚一个人回家，
etc....太多了一时想不起
我们这一代比起我们爸爸妈妈那一代真是太幸福了，
在温室的环境下成长是否真的是一种幸福，
还是一种溺爱？
我觉的适当的关爱是好的，过于疼爱只会让孩子变成懦弱。
 过于依赖，只会让你双眼被遮挡，不能往前走。
13 février 承认自己不会的东西，是一种勇气的表现，也代表您成长了。小时候，我老爸常常跟我说：“孩子，如果你有不懂的东西你应该问别人。不要因为怕被别人看不起而不敢问， 这样你才能学到东西。”回想起来，我觉的我老爸说的对
 。因为不是每样东西你都能精通，在这真实的世界里"Mr Versatile" 并不存在 。
在我这渺小的二十二年人生里，我都没有察觉到在这世界里存在着一些怕没有“face”的人， 也称为“Kia Su"
。有时"kia su" 是一种美德，因为你会很努力的静修自己， 让自己进步。 但是如果每样东西都抱着这种态度，就会成为一种让人翻感的态度。这种情况被称为" Over Kia Su symptom".
还有一种更让我“肚林”的就是“冲大头”，这是从“overkia su symptom" 异变的病态。
它的病状就是你不懂的东西，它会让你装懂，然后误导人家
 ~！但是我最近发现，此病在不同人的身上有不同的回应。如果在一个天身让人感到搞笑的人身上是一种不错的搞笑剂， 但发生在一个没有搞笑体质的人身上是一种让人想用双指把他“屁眼”顶上青天~！我很幸会的在同一个时间遇到怀有这俩种病态的人‘s
 。最后，我要说的是，有时遇到不懂的东西，应该把“face”放下，然后去问别人，这样能学到更多的东西
 。还有适当的"kia su"是不错的。
 我在google找到的，觉的不错所以借来给我这份blog装饰一下
。
12 février New Beginning?? Sometimes i'm a superstition guy, why i would said like that? The reason is because every chinese new year, i would be feeling lazy(lazy to study, lazy to read lazy to etc......). The only thing that laziness would not affect is my altitude on playing = =. So from this day on, during the 5th day of chinese new year. I want to get rid of such bad habit, as years gone by, im getting more older and older. For some group of peoples, they felt like killing themselves or abomination of themselves just because they getting a year more older = =. We should enjoy this, although sometimes i put myself into a lot of stress, just because i scare my hair will fall off. At the end, i will hav a lots of calvities on my head.  , but this is life, no matter what happen life still go on. The most important is enjoy your life. But please dont's enjoy your life at the expense of other peoples benefit. If each peoples pay the same amount of money on a thing, we should share the same amount of rights on that thing. But please, don't be afraid of other peoples taking your benefit, so that you have the reason to take other peoples benefit. If you don't trust them, what for you agree to share a thing with other peoples. A people that want to share things with others, should have they mind set. They should throw out those selfish & childish thought. If you cannot get rid with it, then you are not qualified to live with other peoples on a house. Im quite lucky, to met this type of people, it let me know what is the bad habits that we chinese have. No wonder, our home country chinese rights had been dacoity with the helps of our own clan. What a joke. Almost 3 and a half months since i came to here from my home country. This trip is the most vital point for my life, it increase my eyereach about develop country. Although the peoples here some quite lazy, but they maintain a good professionality on they job( railway service, customer service, altitude of the police forces and etc...). This is the things that lacking on my home country. But no matter how advance a nation was, there's always mistake take place. So i think they is no country that didn't make any mistake, they is no an "ideal country". As we are human, human cannot prevent making mistakes. But this is the main factor that makes life seems beautiful, unideal things will leave a strong image in your mind. This will make that things more attractive compare to those ideal things. I still love my country, i still live the enviroment there, the way the peoples live, the way that the weather goes. Is beautiful, you cannot get it from other country. But sometimes, the things that the politicians done, had hurt me deeply. In the future, if this things get even worse, i will not hesitate of migrating to other countries. Staying overseas had make my mind more mature, although my temper sligthly improve a bit. But i'm still have those impulsion temper, i will try to control myself. But i'm very sure, i can overcome this problem. Talking about tempered, one of my housemate alwayz fed up just because playing a chinese rpg game called " The Chinese Palatin 4". What a guy, he is more older thn me, but he act like a kid. Omg, is a joke. I admit it, last time i always like that. But after i made my girl friend cried, i promised myself to control my temper. Nowadays, i didn't lost my temper on a meaningless game. This just for you honey So a new chinese lunar calender means that a brand new year for me, for this year i would like to shed off my bad habit, and learn more useful things hehehe. As in 5 months time, im gonna graduate and in dry dock(unemployed) Happi chinese new year to my fellows friend & Honey. Muaks~~ This is for you my sweet honey, i miss you a lot hehehe.
5 octobre Kingdom Of The "Three LIons"
At last~! I had reached here. It took about 16 tiring hours
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Well is 28th of november 2006, tiz year almost come to an end. N a new year will be coming....
Dun knw y, evertime whn a semester endz, i will feel a little bit lonely~~ Mayb.... juz mayb, i like to be with my friends n my gf a lot. In the mean time, i will miss my parents n my relative's. Especially, whn i watch movie or something tat related to families. I remembered, a movie called "The Click" Touched me the most. Is not the comedy part tat touches me, is whn the main actor adam sandler => "if im not spell it wrongly" rewind back the scene whn his father said :" i love u my son...". Tat praise completely knock me out of my tear barrier, but luckily juz a pair of wet eyes for me. I dun like to cry.....but whn im feel very very sad...i prefer to cry~~juz strange~~ mayb when i were small, cry is my second name..gua~~~=.=" Now i hav the gloom gloom feel, mostly is bcauz no one around me at the moment, juz like whn i were small... the only son of the family, my only pal is my toysss..JUz like the main character in the movie called "Flushed Away" quite lonely..
but whn i got somethings to do or focus on, my loneliness will vanish from my mind. So TV, GAmes ,Animes, Movies help me a lot to kick the loneliness out of my mind. Most of my friends will finish their second year at the coming semester. IS quite sad, cannot play futsal, watch movie or play basketball liao........Mayb life is juz meeting new friends n say " good bye" to friends after some times. I coping at it, n hope i can hav a mature mentality.
Now, my gf is going to penang study for her ACCA. So i will miss her a lot. IS quite fantastic tat i met her from the start of june 2005, it change my life a lot. Make my college life more interesting. Next sem i will take some time n money to buy a plane ticket to find her. WIsh she will settle her life in penang well. Cauz next year, i will b going to UK soon(Hope the following two sem will hav a nice result). N also taking as much time as possible to accompany my family also...
One year didn't meet ur family n gf is unthinkable. BUt i will cope it no matter wat. Im 21 n is time to be more independent n be a depentable man for other's ppl, especially my family n my gf.
I think is enough for me for today, i didn't sleep for a day oready, n planning to increase it for two dayz.... Miss ya~~~=v= |
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18 septembre
welcome to my sembreak life(part 2)
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Speaking about the "shooter", it's juz like a mix of mint n i think got add some cough medicine(those green green colour one ler~~). It's quite a heartdache to pay for rm 22 juz for one small tinnnnnny~~~~glass of "blowjob" =.=~~凸
But mayb i 1st time go tiz kind of place i will used my money very uncontrol one,
mayb is inherited from my mum~~sad case~~
ppl said leo cannot save money one..
i think is quite true for me lar..~~~
After a nice few day at kedah n penang,
the hot current in my boddy finally burst~~~
my throat is the victim for tiz time.
a quite big urcel appear in my left throat,
wat a nice n lucky way to hav a strange soar throat ,
bcauz it cannot be cure by using medicine,
muz drink lot's of water n dun eat fried food,
baru will recover one.
The soar throat make me cannot sleep at all~~
wat a scary n sufffer~~~~ 凸=.=凸 NO more durian for me liao...~~~
durian + "blow job" can cause u damn a lot of bad effect~`~~ p/s: alor star food, shoes n gundam 1/144 scale model damn fuckie cheap lolz......
The end~~=7
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28 août
Welcome to my sem break life~!(part 1)
Tiz sem break,
quite fun cauz i got go visit my gf hometown n find friends at penang.
Before tat,
my mum, my aunt,my grandparents n two of my little cousin came to kl.
Althought he 1st 2 dayz i didn't go out with them,
but for the following 2 dayz i n my gf n with them go to genting for not more than 80 min,
and then go to sungai wang.
That is the shortest time for me to stay at genting...
quite strange.
quite strange.
My mum n grandparent buy a lot of durian.
And they reserve 3 small biji of durian for me,
omg i have eaten at least 2 n a half durian,
And they reserve 3 small biji of durian for me,
omg i have eaten at least 2 n a half durian,
and another half my gf eat liao.
The result is ,
The result is ,
me hav a uncer in my throat ,
n my gf hav a cough.
So next time cannot eat too much durian liao.
end of part 1
part 2 preview:
a glass of blow job can make ur life worse~~~
especially it is very small n expensive....
9 mai
侧田-Dream away~
听了侧田最新的专辑（no protection)，让我听到有一种轻松的感觉是-"dream away"这首歌。侧田的柔而带刚声音在加上"dream away" 的歌词和吉他清单的伴奏，让人能体验在临睡的那一刻和爱人约定在梦里约会，不被沉睡而让彼此有分开的机会。
歌名：Dream Away
演唱：侧田
专辑：No Protection
曲/词/编/监:侧田(On Your Mark)
For you I sing this lullaby
Make sure that baby you sleep tight
Oh baby never say good night
Cuz i will see you in my dream
Easy as it seems
Why don't you count your sheep along
with me baby 1 2 3.
如用我脑海去亲你
只感到越爱越好奇
能用我歌声去亲你
Dream away
Baby baby close your eyes
Only thing that's left to say
Dream away Dream away
Dream away Dream away
演唱：侧田
专辑：No Protection
曲/词/编/监:侧田(On Your Mark)
For you I sing this lullaby
Make sure that baby you sleep tight
Oh baby never say good night
Cuz i will see you in my dream
Easy as it seems
Why don't you count your sheep along
with me baby 1 2 3.
如用我脑海去亲你
只感到越爱越好奇
能用我歌声去亲你
Dream away
Baby baby close your eyes
Only thing that's left to say
Dream away Dream away
Dream away Dream away
"如用我脑海去亲你"- 我第一次看到以脑海 去亲爱人，比以双唇亲吻爱人更深一程，以歌声去亲你
，就好比这首歌永远都能保持在深爱彼此的阶段至到永远。。。。。。
，就好比这首歌永远都能保持在深爱彼此的阶段至到永远。。。。。。
18 avril
七年之痒
刚刚在一本杂志看到关于七年之痒的文章，
七年之痒的意思就是说一段恋情不能超过七年的爱情魔咒，
郑伊健和梁咏琪就是最好的列子，
他们的恋情蔡维持到七年九结束了。
为何恋情不能超过七年呢？
有人说因为彼此都厌倦了对方，
当有新鲜的事物进入了两个人的生活空间就会发生情变，
是否人类不能呆在一个已经呆了很久的地方呢？
为何会有厌倦的心理呢？
是否天长地久已经不再存在了？
我看到杂志的某主编写了她的心得就是：“
七年只不过是个分水岭，
努力度过了就能把感情转为深情，
可以拨开乌云见青天。
因为一段感情得来不易，
与天下想偷吃的有情人共勉之。”
我双手赞同她的结论，
我不会那么轻易放弃我和婉婉的恋情~！！
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